CC – I Was Out, He’s In Charge

Has there been any instance like this??? I can’t remember. But you know what, if ever there was or there will be, I have nothing to worry. I always tell hubby, “Dad, if I go first I’m sure you’ll get on in no time, but if you go ahead of me, then my life would be a disaster.” Why? Because hubby knows better than I do. He’s the organized and I am the stubborn. He always knows what to do, while I can’t even decide on my own. Even with the simplest things like, to buy or not to buy, to do this or not to do, to bring this or not at all. You know what I mean?

The only thing that I’m better at are cooking, ironing or maybe bathing Alyssa. But these I’m sure he can do well if he’s not got any choice. I am not the wonder mom who “does it all”. Hubby always helps me in cleaning the house, setting and cleaning the table, doing the grocery and even cooking. I can stay in front of my lappy the whole day without hearing any complaints from him. He doesn’t oblige me to do all the house chores everyday. I don’t even take care of the bills.

It’s sad to realize that I am not so much of a loss, but I guess it’s better so if ever I am taken earlier, it will not be so much of a burden to my family. Now what is this drama? I don’t know… This is just how I feel while I write this and it’s somehow an eye opener to me. I think I should be doing what a good full-time mom really does. Because if not, then I would not have anything to be proud of. I can’t be proud that my career as a full-time mom is harder than it seems, right?

So what am I saying here? It’s just that hubby can take over everything because he’s such a good man to know how to run our household. I’m so lucky to have such a hands-on partner in life.

MM: Daddy Moments

Daddy and Alyssa are both photogenic, unfortunately I’m not. So most of the time I am the photographer and they are my models.

I just love capturing those precious daddy moments.

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CC – Plans for Father’s Day 2010

Taken by my bro-in-law using his screenshot while they talk over Skype.

I have been draining my brain for 2 weeks now about a nice Father’s day present for our sweet and loving Daddy, but it’s only this afternoon when I finally got to purchase them. Hubby don’t read my blogs so no worries. Though I still won’t reveal what it is yet, one thing’s for sure… It’s something I know he will like. It’s a necessity (for him) and I’m gonna share about it after Father’s Day.

We are also planning to go to Westfield mall again (it’s the only mall that’s a bit big and within London, so that’s the only choice) and hopefully dine somewhere more decent than a fastfood chain. Oh, I tell you that’s so unusual. haha!!! We planned of doing it last April for our wedding anniversary celebration, but we got hungry early and have snacks at Burger King – resulting to full tummies come dinner time so we just went straight home.

As always… I can’t beat my hubby’s surprises for me, but you what??? Believe it or not, I REALLY TRY HARD! It’s just that he’s got more ideas than me and he can keep the excitement to himself, while I – CANNOT!

ADVANCE HAPPY FATHER’S DAY TO ALL MY FATHERS AND TO ALL THE GREAT FATHERS IN THE WORLD!!!

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